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Replies: 15Last Post Nov. 20, 2008 9:05pm by asia lover
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See their is this guy I used to like, and he likes me. We flirted and whatever but never hooked up. He was just... too ashamed of himself for being gay. So I did not want to deal with it and left it at that.

He has not gotten over me. He flirts with me (I try not too) and yesterday he drew a picture of me and today he wrote sixteen things about me and ahh
IDK... I feel like yeah I like him but I think it would be bad if I tried to go with him... he just isn't right for me...
I just needed to write my thoughts down... er type lol

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will you go out with me?

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lol If he likes you and you like him you should go for it

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Quote: from Alice Cullen at 8:32 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

lol If he likes you and you like him you should go for it
No we tried that and he is so afraid of being gay and he just needs to sort out his own life.

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Quote: from Quantumleaper at 8:32 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

will you go out with me?
Sorry I don't date straight dudes.

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Quote: from asia lover at 9:33 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

Quote: from Quantumleaper at 8:32 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

will you go out with me?
Sorry I don't date straight dudes.

people lie on the internet ya know

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Quote: from Quantumleaper at 8:35 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

Quote: from asia lover at 9:33 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

Quote: from Quantumleaper at 8:32 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

will you go out with me?
Sorry I don't date straight dudes.

people lie on the internet ya know


O__o
uhm... no thanks...

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Quote: from Alice Cullen at 8:32 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

lol If he likes you and you like him you should go for it

I agree!!!

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He sounds.....clingy O_o

I mean he's still not over you, he drew a picture of you & wrote down 16 things about you.

If you say he isn't write for you then he ain't the one haha. Oh and he needs to sort out his life as well.

Post edited at 8:40 pm on Nov. 20, 2008 by Rawkstar

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Quote: from Rawkstar at 8:39 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

He sounds.....clingy O_o

I mean he's still not over you, he drew a picture of you & wrote down 16 things about you.

If you say he isn't write for you then he ain't the one haha. Oh and he needs to sort out his life as well.


Oh wow I made him sound obsessive lol
It isn't like that really. He just drew me in class one day and the sixteen words was an assignment (although it was supposed to be about yourself...)
But he isn't clingy. See that is why it did not work out he was too afraid to get close.

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Quote: from asia lover at 11:41 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

Quote: from Rawkstar at 8:39 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

He sounds.....clingy O_o  

 I mean he's still not over you, he drew a picture of you & wrote down 16 things about you.  

 If you say he isn't write for you then he ain't the one haha. Oh and he needs to sort out his life as well.


Oh wow I made him sound obsessive lol
It isn't like that really. He just drew me in class one day and the sixteen words was an assignment (although it was supposed to be about yourself...)
But he isn't clingy. See that is why it did not work out he was too afraid to get close.


At first I was thinking of this guy that did the same thing. He constantly wrote poems and poems and message me to read his poems and tell me what I thought about it when actually it was about me. It was annoying lol.

I guess he's not ready to be in a gay relationship. He needs more time.

Aww that's cute. He drew you  

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Quote: from Rawkstar at 8:49 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

Quote: from asia lover at 11:41 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

Quote: from Rawkstar at 8:39 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

He sounds.....clingy O_o

  I mean he's still not over you, he drew a picture of you & wrote down 16 things about you.

  If you say he isn't write for you then he ain't the one haha. Oh and he needs to sort out his life as well.


Oh wow I made him sound obsessive lol  
 It isn't like that really. He just drew me in class one day and the sixteen words was an assignment (although it was supposed to be about yourself...)  
 But he isn't clingy. See that is why it did not work out he was too afraid to get close.


At first I was thinking of this guy that did the same thing. He constantly wrote poems and poems and message me to read his poems and tell me what I thought about it when actually it was about me. It was annoying lol.

I guess he's not ready to be in a gay relationship. He needs more time.

Aww that's cute. He drew you


Ugh...
he was having problems just saying "I'm gay"
and he is always complaining that male and male relationships are weird. And blah blah.
It is not cute to me... just weird...

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Would a simple direct approach work..."Hey, I really like you and would like to be with you, but I don't think it'll work since I think you might have problems with your sexuality. What do you think?" ... or would asking such a thing like that merely scare him away?

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Quote: from Clouse227 at 9:00 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

Would a simple direct approach work..."Hey, I really like you and would like to be with you, but I don't think it'll work since I think you might have problems with your sexuality. What do you think?" ... or would asking such a thing like that merely scare him away?
Scare. When you are in what I call "semi denial" bringing up the problem will scare him away. You have to gradually make him aware of it and then let him confront it on his own. But I think it would be best to do this without having a relationship and that is going to be difficult since the like is mutual. So I decided it would be best for both of us if I just left it as a friendship and let him deal with that on his own.

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Quote: from asia lover at 9:02 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

Quote: from Clouse227 at 9:00 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

Would a simple direct approach work..."Hey, I really like you and would like to be with you, but I don't think it'll work since I think you might have problems with your sexuality. What do you think?" ... or would asking such a thing like that merely scare him away?
Scare. When you are in what I call "semi denial" bringing up the problem will scare him away. You have to gradually make him aware of it and then let him confront it on his own. But I think it would be best to do this without having a relationship and that is going to be difficult since the like is mutual. So I decided it would be best for both of us if I just left it as a friendship and let him deal with that on his own.

Yeah, you're right.

Unfortunately han, I think you know yourself enough to know that if you try to help him to intimately you'd probably end up making somewhat of a mess.

I agree. Let him sort things out himself.

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